As an asexual author, writing romance can feel like navigating a world that doesn’t always reflect your own experiences or desires.

From the moment we open a book, start a TV show, or watch a movie, we often find ourselves drawn to characters who are not perfect. This post explores the magnetic pull of imperfect/flawed characters, using examples from some of my favourite fandoms like Stranger Things, Harry Potter, Merlin, and Squid Game. Whether you are a reader, writer, or filmmaker, understanding this connection can enrich your experience and storytelling.