As an asexual author, writing romance can feel like navigating a world that doesn’t always reflect your own experiences or desires.

The debate between plotting and pantsing has divided authors for decades, with passionate advocates on both sides. Understanding these two approaches helps writers find the best method for their style and project.

From the moment we open a book, start a TV show, or watch a movie, we often find ourselves drawn to characters who are not perfect. This post explores the magnetic pull of imperfect/flawed characters, using examples from some of my favourite fandoms like Stranger Things, Harry Potter, Merlin, and Squid Game. Whether you are a reader, writer, or filmmaker, understanding this connection can enrich your experience and storytelling.